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 Jumping to Conclusions and rep damage

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PostSubject: Jumping to Conclusions and rep damage   Mon Jan 18, 2016 10:27 am

Okay, so I think sometimes people need to ask before they assume things.

What I mean is if a girl and guy hang out, or 2 girls, or 2 guys, it does not mean there is a relationship or anything physical going on between them.
When people assume there is and start spreading rumors then that is how reputations get damaged, and people really get their feelings hurt.
If a guy or girl is in a relationship, let them be the ones to tell their friends, and do not make assumptions until you know all the facts.

I think all of us need to remind ourselves about this.

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PostSubject: Re: Jumping to Conclusions and rep damage   Mon Jan 18, 2016 10:31 am

I agree with Jakob and would also like to add that what goes on in a relationship between two people should is between them, and other people should not pry or ask questions.
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PostSubject: Re: Jumping to Conclusions and rep damage   Mon Jan 18, 2016 1:08 pm

I do not like that either when people do it. If I see any of my friends starting rumors, or gossiping about other people that way, I tell them, "hey dude, so not cool, knock it off".
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PostSubject: Re: Jumping to Conclusions and rep damage   Mon Jan 18, 2016 2:17 pm

It is just cruel and hurtful to do something like that to another person when you do not know all the facts surrounding their lives. I think in our schools there should be large signs posted in the hallways that say: MYOB (Mind Your Own Business).  
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PostSubject: Re: Jumping to Conclusions and rep damage   Mon Jan 18, 2016 7:19 pm

As people get older and more mature, I would hope they would not do this as much, but it seems at the junior high and high school level, this is a very growing problem.
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PostSubject: Re: Jumping to Conclusions and rep damage   Fri Jan 22, 2016 8:13 pm

Many reputations have been ruined by gossip, and rumors.
It's really sad that people do not have enough to do in their lives other than to make misery for other people.
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PostSubject: Re: Jumping to Conclusions and rep damage   Sat Jan 23, 2016 1:42 pm

If I am around people that meddle in relationships, I avoid them. Usually it is because they are so jealous they are not in one.
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