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PostSubject: Help - Need Advice   Fri Apr 08, 2016 5:41 pm

I am debating whether or not to take this to my parents, which will be quite difficult, but thought I would toss it out there for any advice. Please do not preach, what is done is done, just tell me what you would do.

2 weeks ago my gf and I were at a birthday party for a guy in my class, there was not drinking or drugs or anything like that there,  and it was an all nighter. To make a long story short, I found out today that someone at the party had hidden a cam in the closet of the bedroom where my gf and I stayed the night. It showed a lot and he took stills. I saw one today that my best friend got a hold of. My first instinct was to beat the living shit out of the guy that did this, but I am not getting suspended from school.
The guy that filmed this used a pretty high def cam is my age, not older.

I will be in the chat room later and would appreciate any help on this, I have not told my gf yet nor does she know.
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PostSubject: Re: Help - Need Advice   Fri Apr 08, 2016 5:50 pm

Jace, I know exactly what that feels like, as Rhiannon and I had the same thing happen to us when I was 17.

I sent you a pm and will also be in the chat room tonight after dinner. Try not to worry yourself sick over this, what that guy did was not only an invasion of privacy, it was illegal, and could be considered child porn because of your age.

From past experience, tell your parents, yes, they may be pissed, they may yell, they may say "what were you thinking" but they are still your parents, your are their son, this they need to hear from you before they find it out from someone else, and they will help you.

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PostSubject: Re: Help - Need Advice   Fri Apr 08, 2016 6:01 pm

Just pm'd you my number Jace, if you need to talk call me. What happened to you was just plain wrong, and personally I'd like to beat that guy's ass for you.
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PostSubject: Re: Help - Need Advice   Fri Apr 08, 2016 6:07 pm

Jace,

Ryan will help you, I am sure of it. But do as he suggested, go to your parents and you got my phone and Brett's in your pm too, we are here for you.
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PostSubject: Re: Help - Need Advice   Fri Apr 08, 2016 6:13 pm

It takes a really low life piece of shit to do that to another guy and his girl.
I'd make sure his rep is trashed at school when I got back, he just violated the trust of all of you there and people need to know what kind of garbage this guy is.
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PostSubject: Re: Help - Need Advice   Sun Apr 10, 2016 10:28 am

I cannot EVEN imagine what that is like, I hope you can turn it around and make sure none of the pictures or video get out.
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