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PostSubject: Wrong hole?   Wed Nov 09, 2016 2:13 pm

I cant decide if im gay or straight can someone help me decide?
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PostSubject: Re: Wrong hole?   Wed Nov 09, 2016 2:28 pm

well, all I can say is go with whoever you want to go out with the most. if theres a boy you're interested in go for him but if you have a girl in mind then go for that lol ^^
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PostSubject: Re: Wrong hole?   Wed Nov 09, 2016 2:47 pm

I suggest going for both. It does not matter wich gender you choose, just choose the one that makes you happy, and if both does, just go both! Laughing
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PostSubject: Re: Wrong hole?   Wed Nov 09, 2016 6:09 pm

I happen to know a person that feels exactly like you. I have told him "do you have to decide now, right this minute?".
My advice, go out with girls, then guys, see which you prefer, it may be a case you prefer both, but the main thing is there is no rush to commit to being straight, gay, or bi. I think these things take time.
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PostSubject: Re: Wrong hole?   Thu Nov 10, 2016 9:57 am

Brother let me tell you that I struggled with that same thing since I was 13. That was up until the time about 6 months ago that I met this guy my age named Drake who had similar feelings. It took hanging around one another and talking to each other, to make us finally realize we were both more attracted to other guys than girls. Long story short, we feel in love. So in my experience, it took that special person to make me finally realize that I was gay.
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PostSubject: Re: Wrong hole?   Thu Nov 10, 2016 10:04 am

]If and when you finally do meet that special person, and experience the joy you give each other by being near one another, it's the most beautiful feeling in the world. But like Hunter said, do not rush it, it takes time to find out, with Aaron who posted above, he was my turning point, and I have no regrets and am proud to say that I am gay.
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PostSubject: Re: Wrong hole?   Thu Nov 10, 2016 10:53 pm

Question

Hmmm...The General Consensus Here Seems Correct...!

Some Peeps Don't Decide Until Well Into Their Later Years...!

Don't Rush To Make A Decision...It's Not Really A Race...!

Experiment & Eventually UR Path Will Become Clear...!

Very Happy
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