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Volleygirl

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A real guy......

Post by Volleygirl on Mon Oct 02, 2017 3:27 pm

For all you girls, do you have a real guy? To all you guys, are you a real guy? If you do not have the qualities I listed below, then you are not the guy for me, or most girls. I hung out with a friend today who is 14 and he is more of a real guy than most guys are that are 17 and older. He is not my  boyfriend, just a friend, and I feel very fortunate to have him in my life.

A real guy:

Does not take advantage of a girl when she is emotionally upset or troubled

A real guy does not run away and hide when things do not go his way, or  
if he disagree's with other people, he stands up for what he believes in, and faces things even when they are not pleasant.

A real guy cares about what goes on in a girls life, and puts her first, not himself.

A real guy will listen to a girl, not change the subject and talk about sex or how he wants to get physical with her.

A real guy is there for his girl, not coming back later and giving her some bullshit excuse about why he was not there for her.

A real guy is there when a girl has something serious in her life going on, not avoiding her because he feels uncomfortable talking with her about it, or would rather ignore it until it goes away.

I hope any guys today reading this, that have a girl, learn something from it. I have no guy in my life right now, but I will soon, and he will be a 'real guy.'


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Re: A real guy......

Post by CaNdY~SpRiNkLeS on Mon Oct 02, 2017 3:58 pm

Karissa, this was a great post  Very Happy  How many times guys take advantage of girls, pretend they care about them but deep down they have ulterior motives for being nice to a girl, when it's convenient for them.

I very much dislike a guy that runs and hides when things get too heated,
and admire the guys like you do that stick it out, good or bad.
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Re: A real guy......

Post by Silver_1 on Mon Oct 02, 2017 8:32 pm

** cheers **

WoW.....Super Cool That You Have A Friend, Of This Caliber.....!

Most (But Not All) 'Guys' Become Decent Folks, After They Mature Out Of Their Early Stages, Into Adulthood....!

Unfortunately, Society Needs A Certain Amount Of 'Undesirables', To Shine Light Upon The Better Ones.....!

Best Wishes, For Finding Your Special Someone, Karissa.....!

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