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 Sex, will it consume the realtionship?

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PostSubject: Sex, will it consume the realtionship?   Mon Aug 24, 2015 8:53 am

Have a question to toss out there for you.

Let's assume 2 people have already agreed to have sex, they feel this is the right time, there is no doubt in their minds what so ever. The guy was a little hesitant, but the more he thought about it, the more he decided to do it. Both people have the maturity level for their age, and are pretty responsible.
Both people are in high school, 2 years away from college.

Question being, if both people take this step and have sex, will sex consume their relationship? In other words will sex be the priority instead of the emotional attachments both people feel for one another?
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PostSubject: Re: Sex, will it consume the realtionship?   Mon Aug 24, 2015 9:22 am

Kodie,
 Sex is a big step for both people in a relationship. If there is even the slightest hesitation, then my answer is do not do it.
Will it consume the relationship? Not if you do not let it, but this is something that needs to be discussed long before you decide to have sex.
 Another consideration to think about, if both people are going to college in 2 years and are still in high school, with all the stress of college coming, and getting through the last 2 years of high school, will sex cause more stress in your life?
 There is a lot to consider, but communication between both people is the most important thing. Sex is not something to be rushed, there is no hurry to have sex, so if there are any doubts, no matter how minor, I would say to wait.    
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PostSubject: Re: Sex, will it consume the realtionship?   Mon Aug 24, 2015 1:10 pm

Okay, so I am not considering or thinking about sex, I will say that right now.
But Rhiannon, are you a counselor, Dr, therapist? How are you qualified to give srx advice?
You are 20 years old and have a baby, so obviously your choices were not the best ones you ever made, so giving other people sex advice is probably not too wise on your part.
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PostSubject: Re: Sex, will it consume the realtionship?   Mon Aug 24, 2015 4:49 pm

Justin,
At no time did I represent myself as a Dr, therapist, or a counselor.
I was answering Kodie's question as a forum member, and a person who has some real life experience.
I resent the remark where you insinuated  that the birth of my son was a 'mistake'.
I was married in May of 2014, and our son was born in March of 2015.
Not only was I married before I got pregnant, I have an Associates Degree, and am part owner in my family business.

So what gives me the right to answer Kodie's post? I am not only a forum member, but I am the co- owner of this forum, and I have a lot more life experience than you do at 13 years old.
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PostSubject: Re: Sex, will it consume the realtionship?   Mon Aug 24, 2015 7:31 pm

Thank you Rhiannon.

I appreciate your response so quickly. It gives me and another person a lot more to think about now, which is a good thing.
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